A Little Love on the Side: Counting your romantic Escapades

The concepts of romance and relationships have changed in the environment that we live in today. The tendency for people to participate in numerous romantic relationships at once, even while committed to a primary spouse, is an intriguing trend that has gained popularity. The human heart longs for adventure, excitement, and engaging encounters in the world of love and romance. Accidental meetings, intense partnerships, and covert rendezvous have long been woven into the fabric of human connections. Even if traditional ideas of monogamy and committed relationships rule many countries, there is an undeniable fascination in venturing into love adventures outside the bounds of traditional relationships. Engaging in this intriguing exploration of the world of love adventures that necessitates reflection, presents ethical issues, and reveals the depths of human wants.

“It’s not surprising that people are now accepting of the idea of supplemental partners, affectionately referred to as “side hustles,” given shifting societal dynamics and developing attitudes towards partnerships. Others find comfort and joy in broadening their amorous horizons, while some may object to this practice.” says Sybill Shiddel, Country Manager, Gleeden, India.

Love, Lemonade, Statistics

How frequent is this “love on the side” is a question that begs to be asked. Up to 49% of men and 60% of women, according to a recent survey by Gleeden, participate in non-monogamous relationships in some capacity. These figures demonstrate the substantial change in societal beliefs about love and loyalty. Unexpectedly, 41% of residents of Kolkata, 45% of Delhi, 34% of Mumbai, and 45% of Bangalore engage in having more than two partners at once. With 49% from Patna, 48% from Indore, and 45% from Jaipur, the ties between the two cities take our breath away.

The Monogamish Movement

The monogamous movement might have a solution for individuals who cherish monogamy’s stability but yearn for a little variation. Setting boundaries helps monogamous couples occasionally have casual experiences outside of their primary relationship. With this strategy, spouses can explore their interests without endangering their relationship.

Love Squared and Cubed

Enter the polyamorous world, where relationships aren’t limited by social norms. This group concurrently seeks for and cultivates close relationships with a variety of partners. Open communication, consent, and emotional honesty are highly valued in polyamory in order to foster moral and fulfilling partnerships. Due to the stark difference in their goals and aspirations, Tier 1 Cities consistently fall short of Tier 2 Cities in competition. Guwahati, Hyderabad, and 52% of Jaipur residents prefer more than three partners at once, whereas Mumbai, Kolkata, Delhi, and Bangalore residents prefer 34%, 41%, 45%, and 45%, respectively.

Excitement vs Expectations

While having romantic adventures can definitely liven up one’s love life, it’s important to keep in mind that open relationships don’t always lead to happiness. Every person and couple must manage their particular journey while making sure that everyone feels appreciated, valued, and fulfilled. Successful alternative relationship dynamics still require constant communication, defining boundaries, and frequent check-ins. Knowing these facts, 51% of Millennials and 57% of Tricenarian have had more than one partner at a time.

The Jealousy Conundrum

It would be negligent to ignore the green-eyed monster that is hiding in the bushes. Even in the most enlightened of arrangements, jealousy can surface. It takes emotional maturity, introspection, and the capacity to acknowledge and productively process jealousy to explore alternate relationships.

Sybill adds to it by saying “Understanding that people have different needs and interests is crucial. While some people may benefit greatly from exploring various romantic relationships, others may flourish in the security of monogamy. In the end, it is up to each individual to choose the kind of love that gives them fulfilment, joy, and, of course, the odd weird side gig.”

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